What am I going to say tonight?

Well, have you noticed that all T.V., Reporters always start with "Well.....



I met a cousin the other day. She told me about someone who was experiencing difficulty with her marriage. The husband has been having an affair with the Au Pair, I think that is really bad of the pair of them. Adultry is bad enough, but for it to take place in your own home, must be dreadfully distressing. When she realised what was happening, and tackled the husband about it, his reply was "It's all your fault".



I cannot imagine how a husband, who when found out in Adultery can blame his wife. There are children involved, and I think it is a "full time job" looking after several small children who are close in age.



Having been married 49 years, the attitude when we were younger was "you've made your bed - so lie in it! That attitude is equally wrong, but we married with the intention that it would be for life. Now "statistics tell us, that people in the future may have up to seven partners".



There is no right or wrong to peoples' relationships, we have found that things get better eventually, although we have had a few rocky moments we have stayed together, and there have been a few gritted teeth. Neither of us have even considered adultry.



This is a sad situation all round. We shall have to wait and watch what the next few weeks bring.

I do have sympathy for anyone in this situation.